So I actually get this question quite often. What do I tell my kids when they find out about what I draw? Well, my answer is easy. I don’t tell them and I keep it so they don’t find out. It’s not something they need to know in my personal opinion, but like your Dad’s old Playboy magazines, there is a chance that they’ll come across it at one point or another.
Right now they’re young so I don’t draw, talk about or look at (surf to) any furry or toon sites naughty or other wise (obviously). As they get older the same will rules apply even past the 18+ mark. It’s not that I’m ashamed of it, but it’s just something that they don’t need to know about dear old Dad. I do all my “Joe” drawings when they’re in bed or sometimes on my lunch break. That’s all there is to it.
But what happens if they find it one day. That’s could be trickier to talk about. In our house though we keep things very open for discussion and we don’t use stupid names for genitalia (special spot, bird, down there, etc…). Right off the top the kids need to know what the proper names are. My daughter is 5 and she knows already. Having a baby brother (or sister) to compare to brings that stuff up quickly. Jumping back, so what will I say if they find out? I’m not sure but I know I’ll be honest with them and I won’t get angry at them for discovering my secret drawing stash. That’s the most important thing in my opinion. I might say something like “Daddy likes to draw naked cartoons sort of like how you like to draw princess or ponies”, but who knows until the time actually comes.
I have all my dirty art stashed in a box in the basement (all for sale too if anyone wants some) but lately I’ve been doing all my art (except commission work) digitally, so there is no drawings to find unless they’re snooping around on my laptop. Which no one but me does, not even my wife (who knows about my drawing habits).
So yeah, my basic answer is, my kids won’t find out what I draw. I take great care so they don’t have to know although the older they are if and when they make the discovery will make explaining it easier… I hope ^_^
So I actually get this question quite often. What do I tell my kids when they find out about what I draw? Well, my answer is easy. I don’t tell them and I keep it so they don’t find out. It’s not something they need to know in my personal opinion, but like your Dad’s old Playboy magazines, there is a chance that they’ll come across it at one point or another.
Right now they’re young so I don’t draw, talk about or look at (surf to) any furry or toon sites naughty or other wise (obviously). As they get older the same will rules apply even past the 18+ mark. It’s not that I’m ashamed of it, but it’s just something that they don’t need to know about dear old Dad. I do all my “Joe” drawings when they’re in bed or sometimes on my lunch break. That’s all there is to it.
But what happens if they find it one day. That’s could be trickier to talk about. In our house though we keep things very open for discussion and we don’t use stupid names for genitalia (special spot, bird, down there, etc…). Right off the top the kids need to know what the proper names are. My daughter is 5 and she knows already. Having a baby brother (or sister) to compare to brings that stuff up quickly. Jumping back, so what will I say if they find out? I’m not sure but I know I’ll be honest with them and I won’t get angry at them for discovering my secret drawing stash. That’s the most important thing in my opinion. I might say something like “Daddy likes to draw naked cartoons sort of like how you like to draw princess or ponies”, but who knows until the time actually comes.
I have all my dirty art stashed in a box in the basement (all for sale too if anyone wants some) but lately I’ve been doing all my art (except commission work) digitally, so there is no drawings to find unless they’re snooping around on my laptop. Which no one but me does, not even my wife (who knows about my drawing habits).
So yeah, my basic answer is, my kids won’t find out what I draw. I take great care so they don’t have to know although the older they are if and when they make the discovery will make explaining it easier… I hope ^_^
Thanks again for all the suggestions on what character I should use for my annual candy cane pic. One of the first ones I saw was Sawyer from Can’t Don’t Dance and I thought… SOLD!
She’s a good over design and has a wonderful silhouette. I’ve only drawn her once in the past and that was a long, long time ago. Thank fully it was super easy to find her official model sheets and she’s easy to draw too. Oh, and same as last year I was able to turn this one into two versions. One for FA (more naughty like with candy canes) and one for DA (toned down and more sexy cheesecakey). Both will of course make it to my blog so if you wish to see the other just look there.
Well looks like I made good for another xmas pic. I’m glad I remembered when I did too.
Thanks again for all the suggestions. ^_^
Thank you for all the suggestions. A character has been picked and is currently in rough sketch form. ^_^
Did you like Santa as a kid? I mean, if you celebrate Christmas that is. If not them fell free to continue to read and laugh at the absurdity of making you kid sit on some strangers lap. I don’t really remember how I felt. I think I was okay. I don’t have any traumatic events involving Santa to my knowledge.
My kids though… forget it. They want nothing to do with him in person. They hide from him if they see him and even burst in to tears. My daughter never wanted to see him at the mall. She would only stand at the edge of “Santa’s Village” and watch other kids have their turn with the red man. Now that my daughter is 5 she’ll go up and shake his hand because “that’s what you do when your five” she says.
They like the idea of Santa and like to read stories about him. My daughter loves drawing pictures for Santa about what she wants for Christmas. It’s so cute. But the real thing… nope… no way.
So how about you? Where you scared of the fat man when you where little?
Holy crap on a stick!
With all the commissions I forgot to get on my annual candy cane pic!
I’m usually on the ball with it but this year… Actually, I’ve found that each year it gets harder to pick a character to use. Do I cjoose a new one or use and old favorite (Gadget, Roxanne, Fifi, Babs, etc…)
Quick, I need a roster of characters to pick from!